I am not going to say Happy Valentine's Day. I know the day is a nice opportunity to give, receive, and consume chocolate. But the day makes so many people feel like shit: people who are lonely, people who have loved and lost, people who happen to just be in a crappy relationship. One of my friends just reported going out and buying a pair of $200 boots to ease the pain of V-day. That's ok, I guess, but it depresses me. We have fucked up ideas and expectations about love and romance that I think are perpetuated by this ridiculous day. We need some other 'models' besides the tired, sappy Valentine's Day one. Megan's"romancing the world at the Manx" idea is groundbreaking, and one that I hope will become a tradition. I wish I were there. Instead, I'm in Montreal being the Valentine's Day grinch.
Tonight I've invited over a friend whose girlfriend dumped him on Fish or Cut Bait Day because he splashed a tiny bit of beer foam in her face. He said she was teasing him, that he meant the foam flicking as a joke, that he apologized several times. She found the beer foam incident a bit much, and took the opportunity to make her exit. I'm sure there was a lot more beyond the foam flicking. But I digress.
In the spirit of romancing the world, I would like to take this opportunity to send love out to the blogsphere. Good pure bloggy love that demands nothing in return.
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Right back at ya Aggie!
(I'm not at Megan's event either, because I stayed home sick today. Even though I feel a little better now, I would have felt guilty going out and having fun when I was too sick to go to work. But I can't wait to read all the blog accounts of the event! I'm living vicariously through the quirky aloners.)
I send you beaucoup d'amour too!
Mannny Blue
I love you too.
I was at Megan's event. You know what I love also? Beer!
I don't believe in virtual love. I'm going to insist on exchanging love with you or anyone else face to face.
I think there things to be said about virtual love in all its various forms. But, XUP, you are right, you should get all the Ottawa bloggers out for a big love exchange. Then, we could all go home and blog about it.
That sounds good. I'll see about getting that organized. It will have to wait until you're back in town, of course.
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